What Greek said, in spades redoubled.

To me .... this kind of Christmas present remark is either (a) temperature-taking/testing the stability of the status quo or (b) total oblivousness to the realities of the situation.

Either way, it's time for a major reality check. All y'all are now WARs (Walk Away Roommates) to their WASness, on account of how they already have definitively walked away as spouses. The decisions are now yours, as is the power. Use it kindly, but do use it. IMHO.


"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes.
Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert