Adultery won't matter. One thing my STBXW will argue is that I let the kids stay up late, they both got hurt on my watch (Paige broke her arm playing with her cousins in a houseful of people; Justin strained his foot the other night at 9PM, his cousins were over and has a splint on).

I agree that the best plan is to focus on what you do as a parent, future plans, etc, vs being negative and attacking in the courtroom. I don't know how we are going to pay for this. I am saddened that her atty. can't control her. Truly....this sucks...for all..including the kids.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;