My WAW removed hers the second she walked out the door. Last time we went down this path, she removed it while still living with me, and started dating immediately.
That time, I wore mine until I found out that she was with someone else, which was about 20 months after her bomb drop. Up until that point, I never had any intention of seeing anyone else. I wasn't going to be the one to destroy what was left of the marriage at that point. I knew that if she did decide to reconcile, and she hadn't been with anyone else, she'd have HUGE issues with me having done it, and, to be honest, the thought of meangingless, animalistic sex just for sex sake never interested me anyway, and I sure wasn't going to develop a relationship with someone else while were were still married and living together.
This time, I don't know whether she's seeing anyone or not. I suspect that she is, but it really doesn't matter. I don't feel comfortable removing the ring yet, even though she has. There will come a time, but just not yet. I frankly find it pretty disrespectful and immature that SHE's so quick to remove hers.
