I feel like H completely disrespects me in front of my boys. IMO, his actions, or lack thereof,
cure = boundary
"I feel ____________ (disrespected) when you do ____________. The next time you do __________ I will point it out. If you continue to do ____________ I will ____________."
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what he thinks of me, and exactly what he doesn't.
Why don't you ask him what he thinks of you? This is mind reading.
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I have communicated my boundaries, but those mean NOTHING to my H.
What are the consequences of crossing the boundaries? Your boundaries mean nothing to you and your H knows it by your actions.
You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
