So, after cooling off (See 48 hour rule), what are your methods of enforcing the boundary?

I agree that his lack of empathy is disrespectful. At a minimum, as a human being, he should have checked on you (if he realized what had happened). But, keep in mind, there is a certain amount of selfishness at play with the WAS.


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