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#1866089 11/02/09 06:16 AM
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OK promise guys I am not a skank, but since you've been following me almost 2 years (!! eek!!) you know that. This song has been my theme song the past couple weeks. If you haven't heard of Lady Antebellum you have to check them out! All the songs that Mikey and I have posted on my thread are theirs. Great songs basically telling the ex to get bent and looking forward with optimism...anyhoo this is my current outlook:

Lady Antebellum, Just Lookin for a Good Time
guy girl both (who sings what)

...Hey what ya drinkin baby?

Girl you’re beautiful
You’re bout near perfect
But I bet somebody’s already told you that
Name your poison
Name your passion
Cause a boy like me just couldn’t help but ask


Keep on talking to me baby
I’m hanging on your every word
Keep those drinks a coming maybe
We’ll both get what we deserve


Chorus
How bout baby
We make a promise
To not promise anything more than one night
Complicated situations
Only get worse in the morning light
Hey I’m just lookin’ for a good time


Put in a long hard week doing this 9 to 5
And you’re just the girl to get that off my mind
You shouldn’t ‘ve worn that dress
You shouldn’t dance like that
You got this little heart of mine in overdrive


I sure love this conversation
The band is good, the music’s loud
But would you get the wrong impression
If I called us a cab right now


Repeat Chorus

Go ahead and lie to me and pull me closeTell me that you love me even if you don’t
The rule is don’t you ever even talk about forever
But you never say never in life

Repeat Chorus

Hey I’m just lookin’ for a good time


**Way better to hear it, it is so upbeat and FUN!! Check out the video on youtube. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GW5Y5Y8wcKU


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Just wanted to start a new thread so you know I am still alive. grin

Life is going along pretty smoothly these days.

Updates:

*Kids had a great time trick or treating, and so did I!!

*Dan left for Hong Kong this morning at 7. I know that b/c he texted me and told me so! Then texted again when he got to
Minneapolis, then twice again when he got to Vancouver to board the international flight. Missed the last texts because I was getting my nails done...he is somewhere over the Pacific about now...

*Shock of all shocks, he did NOT get me the paperwork! I am tired of the game-playing. I basically told him to just tell it like it is. You know "You aren't worth the energy to me to actually go get the papers signed" or "Man liquidating my 401 K sucks so I am trying to put it off" or "I just don't want my friends and neighbors to know we are getting a divorce", whatever...

He said it was none of the above and I just said I had created my own list of his reasons since he never gave any. He said he didn't want a divorce because he didn't want to be divorced from ME, not for any of the other reasons. I could tell it was going to turn in to 'second verse, same as the first' at that point so I just wished him well on his trip and walked him to the door...wasn't a big convo about 4 minutes tops. cool

*Nice Sunday, went to church, then had the neigbor girl come over for an hour or so and went and got my nails done! Then had my mom over to eat supper with us as my dad is in New Mexico.

*Tomorrow night is the non-date, I am looking forward to it. Talked with MG again on Friday night and then tonight as well. Not sure how it will all go but I think it will be a lot of fun. He has sent me some more flirty texts over the weekend so that is always a PMA booster. smile

OK that is pretty much my update.


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OK guess I will keep replying to myself! laugh Not a huge astrology person but Ali you are converting me a bit... wink Priya said something about this being a 'sensual' full moon and as it aligns with my non-date that piqued my interest.

Found this on Ms. Aslan's site:
VIRGO
(August 24 - September 22)

This week ushers in the strong feeling of knowing you have not only survived the tests of Saturn, but you are stronger for the journey, this strength will feel more real once you progressively recover from all the output. Slow as Saturn goes, deliberate and processed, so too will you gradually feel the results of all your Soul sweat. You have given your all for the past two or three years and it is time to allow yourself to relax and receive. Downtime is recommended if you can pull yourself away from the never ending things to do list. That list will always be there. You will find if you can take care of some basic inner needs that you will feel far lighter and better prepared to be in the world.

Take a load off, live a little and let us see that sweet smile of yours

Pretty darn accurate given the bomb was 2 years ago Nov. 10 and I had concerns for 6 months before that...!!

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(((((BobbiJo)))))

I hope you have a good time tomorrow! I'm a little jealous of MG... in a good way!

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Found you! smile

Please tell me you are having Dan served as he steps off the plane! That man will not let you go because he then loses his control over you. Take control and get it done (unless you have changed your mind - which it doesn't sound like you have).


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
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D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!

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Hey sis!!!
Non-date night tonight? WOW, so exciting!! Be yourself and focus on your goal :FUN, FUN, FUN!!! Nothing else.

As for Dan, what can I say? The man is pathetic. I think he is back with her and needs you to keep balance, cant handle her on his own... But again, who am I to speak? I've lost that provilege of making judgements...
Love
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HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!


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Curiouser and curiouser....

When it rains it pours!

1)Talked to MG last night, meeting up tonight

2)Got an email from Dan at work saying he made it to Hong Kong. Message was full of exclamation points, how cool it was, how he flew over Alaska and Russia vs. the ocean, ending with an I Love You and will hopefully talk to you soon...

3)Just got a text from MG#2 asking how my morning is going! We have traded a few emails this week. Keeping all my options open...

Yes it is shaping up to be a lovely Monday morning. cool


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Hey BBJ,

<<He said he didn't want a divorce because he didn't want to be divorced from ME, not for any of the other reasons.>>

Ok., so he does not want a divorce but according to an e-mail he sent both you and the OW he wants nothing to do witheither of you???

As far as options go, I would seriously consider dropping #2....but what do I know?

have fun tonight...you deserve it.....and don't take any sh!t....from anybody #1 / #3 and especially #3!

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sorry #2

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I wonder if it is their life's mission to just torture.

I just try to keep thinking karma is a bitch and sooner or later this will bite THEM in the butt...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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