[quote=givingitmyall] So, can you identify what really has you upset? I mean the absolute root cause of it?
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I feel like H completely disrespects me in front of my boys. IMO, his actions, or lack thereof, show them exactly what he thinks of me, and exactly what he doesn't.
I hurt for them, don't want them to be exposed to this. His actions and inactions are killing me, but it is magnified by the fact that I know they are seeing it. What does it say about me when I allow it to continue? I have communicated my boundaries, but those mean NOTHING to my H.
BIM M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11
my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127