S4H...I think that is true. Stbx seems to feel that I have control over everything and he has accused me of being controlling. Now, theoretically speaking I realize that we all have some control issues, but I was never really controling until I felt threatened, which was towards the end. Even then, I was not necessarily controlling, but a little more verbal about some things. Regardless, I think you are right that he wants that last little bit of control because his life right now is so out of control.
I just want closure.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
