Originally Posted By: Gardener
The very first decision I made while I was still reading The Four Agreements was to decide to: not take my sitch personally.
None of it.
Not the bomb, not the leaving, not the continued and escalating distancing.
Nor the lies, the rewriting history, editing memories, nor bizarre accusations.
None of it.
I just don't take it personally.
I'm not taking it personally.
I refuse. No more.

What a burden that lifted.



Gardener, I know my H has this book. I guess I need to borrow it, cause I could sure use some peace and relieve myself from some of the blame being thrown at me by not taking any of H's antics personally. Good for you!!!

Oh, and congrats on quitting smoking!!!

BIM

Last edited by brownidmom; 11/02/09 06:38 PM.
BIM
M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11

my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127