Hi Cutter... I know he is not that man. I am so sad about that. He was such a good man. :-(
I am not very technologically savy... so I have no idea what you mean by the back up software etc. He uses a laptop that I would have no reason to be on (since I have my own) unless I was snooping. However, last time I checked he hasn't password protected his account on that laptop... I might be able to log onto it still... haven't checked in a long time.
Yes, he keeps his phone with him at all times and protects it at all costs. That was actually what first tipped me off to the EA. He used to leave it lying around and charge it on the kitchen counter etc. Then, suddenly I never saw it and he started locking it all the time.
He always says he is out with "guys from work" - no names. A lot of those "guys" I don't know. Or he says he is by himself "thinking" - goes for drives or to a coffee shop alone.
I did go over bank records already... didn't see anything, but I think he has used cash for anything questionable.
I have yet to find a slip up. And, yes I am sure I am in denial. It is just so hard.
