The syptoms are similar...but the way out is individual.
I know an MLC who had to see a man die in front of her to see the light. My wife realized that there was nothing of me in her apartment and it wasn't...full. Another who realized his wife was the best thing he was going to lose...
So there is no magic bullet for it. There is no...one thing to recreate it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK