RDW thanks for the kind words... No I switched to the 2am one now... Which is better as I am asleep again when 4am rolls around.

Undrdg. Yes I am hanging in very well. I am still coming to grips with myself on being single. I am starting to really enjoy it. Its weird. I still talk to herside of the family. Do stuff with them. Do stuff with our friends. But I just have removed her. And it really does not bother me at all right now. And I do not know what to do with that thought. We have no kids. So I only need to contact her one more time to finish off the seperation papers and thats it. If I want that.

I know now that if she came back and said take me back I would say NO. Mind you this has not happened so take it with a gram of salt.
I have worked on what I want in life. I am heading down that path. Adjusting as needed and keeping open eyes and ears to learn.
Its all still very confusing watching what is happening to myself. I do know I like where I am going. I will continue to head down this parellel path.

I really do thank detachment and the advice from this site, which has helped me to this place at this time.

Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!