I shouldn't have said anything about your step father. However, on that particular day, I was very discouraged about another man in my W's life as well as the possibility of being in my children's lives. Especially someone that would step in WHILE we are married. I let my own personal angry feelings about my unwanted possible situation bleed into everyone else's situation.
I am sure that your step father is a great individual. It sounds like he really is from everything you said about him. Whether or not I agree with the concept of remarriage, does not mean that someone who does is a bad person. For that I apologize.
I can admit that I like my W's stepdad very much and always have. He is a very generous and caring person. He does anything he can to help those who need help. I may not agree with his choice of remarriage, but as a person goes, he is really a great person.
Thanks for posting to me.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...