He is not the man you know anymore RDW.

If I was you I would assume PA. You know it was EA.
Remember cheaters lie.
I handed my wife two wine glasses from an overnight bag from a business trip. She lied right to my face about them.

Now if you want to get real sneaky on the spying part.... Install some backup software on your pc for what ever phone they have. Connect via bluetooth. Usually the pin is 0000.
Back up the phone. Open up the software and read...
Does he keep the phone with him at all times? Protects it at all cost?

Document who he says he is out with.... Look for a pattern. No doubt he has a code name for OW.

Look at detailed bank records for the last year. Any patterns in spending that has changed ?

Cheaters get sloppy and slip up. LBS's get into denial.


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