I'm working on the task. You said to take a couple of days. Otherwise (you know me) I am just going to say what I want in my life is........... my wife..........You know, Indy being Indy.
I will come up with real answers.
I know the R talks have to end. I say I won't take part, and then (me being me) I am so happy to have any kind of attention from wife I talk to her and hear her reasoning and I believe it.
So..the only solution for me, is absolute zero on R talks...or anything that could lead to one, before I know it. Best for ME to err on the side of caution.