Thanks again. So, you're saying I should continue doing the day-trips with s5 so that she can see the changes in me? If so, I will just need to be patient and be there even though it makes me uncomfortable. Hey, that's it! Part of my detachment process is improving the way I feel when I'm with her. If I am tense and uncomfortable, then I haven't fully detached. She's really supplying the litmus test. Maybe the more I get better at detachment, the more relax she'll be... the more we'll have a better time with s5.


Me-46
W-39
M-9, T-13
S5
B 07/17/09