I am sorry to hear that you are feeling sad. It is a VERY TOUGH ROAD and I am in wayyyy over my head right now too. I will try to post on my own sitch when I have at least begun to process what is happening around me.
Question- if her family is to visit for Thanksgiving and Christmas, what will the sleeping arrangements be. Won't you need the guest room for your guests? What will her solution to that be?
Hang in there. You are a wonderful person.
BIM
Hi stranger. Thanks for chiming in.
I had thought about the sleeping arrangements. My guess is she will move down to the downstairs couch (pull out) while her parents are here and let them have "her" room.
One of the interesting things she has started doing is referring to the rooms as the master and guest rather than hers and mine - this is one of the things I told her a week ago I did not like - her referring to the rooms as her's and mine.
