Counseling conundrums

[iwantittowork]

Hey Bunny,

I wanted to go back to your other post as well, as I had been thinking about it, and in comparison to some things that happened to me that really helped my thought process as I moved to separate.

Just to digress back to my sitch for comparison:
When I finally decided to drop everything and bail, it was amazing how all the things just 'fell' into place correctly. Literally, when the thoughts coalesced into the 'I am moving out' and I meant it, it took 2 weeks from start to finish to get setup from scratch in a new life, after 14 years in an old one, and I mean everything just happened with absolute minimal hitches. That struck me as really odd, and if I was more spiritual, I may have said there was another hand involved to get this done, that's how strongly I feel now looking back at that transition.

As they happened, I held firm to them through that time period and they help steel my resolve to keep going. In addition, the actual working on it helps as there is many things to focus on during that period.

Now, back to Bunny's sitch, previously in progress:
In one of your recent posts, you had started to pull the trigger, and what you wrote struck me the same way as in my sitch:

I can move in 11/28 even tho the lease doesn't start until 12/1- they'll let me have those three days as a bonus. The lady in the office was really sweet. She said her church had just started a Divorce Recovery Support group session and offered to sponsor me if I wanted to go.

Bonus- he's a partner at the firm. He said if I wanted, we could handle the divorce in-house so I wouldn't incur atty fees, just court costs.

Wow, how powerful is it that at just the beginning, and in just your one post, there are a couple of things already starting to fall to you without any thought or request! I don't doubt for a second that as you move forward, you'll be able to spot many of these along the way. Hold them close to you as you spot them, as they will be able to help lift your spirits!