So a big 180 for me that is working:

I DO NOT TRY TO PLEASE MSR2C!

Yes it is not logical. But it works, so I am going to keep doing it. It has opened up communication. Of course I have kids that will tie us together forever......


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712