[Yoyowife]

They say hindsight is 20/20. If I could do things differently I certainly would have taken a tougher stance. I let my H yoyo me for 2 1/2 years thinking I could win him back. He would come around, but he never stayed. I am now going through divorce. I am getting on with my life. Yes, I wish my marriage had worked out, but it's time to move on. If I had taken the stance long ago, that I was going to be okay with or without him, things might be different.

I am doing well by the way. Finally, I am definitely getting a life! I do believe H is shocked that I finally dropped the rope, seems to be interested in what I am doing now. I no longer have feelings for him, but it would have been nice in the beginning for him to wonder.