In my situation, the W laughed at me last week because I wasnt "over" her yet.
If it makes you feel any better, my W and her friends have also laughed at me and made fun of me for the same thing. I have also been laughed at for keeping hope alive and praying for help.
It is a terrible feeling when those things happen to you. It makes you feel pretty low. That seems to be one of the areas where detachment comes in and plays a healthy role so that it no longer bothers you.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...