Detachment

[brknheart]

I admit it is hard to find a balance of still loving W and detaching mentally and emotionally.

Sometimes you may have no choice but to detach. In my situation, the W laughed at me last week because I wasnt "over" her yet. She is so determined to get a D, she is trying to make it happen sooner. Ive made great progress detaching from her, thinking about how my life could be better, the things I didnt like about her in the past, if we did get back together would she do this again. I see your W dropped the bomb twice. Im not sure if I can handle this happening again, especially since my W needs mental help and wont admit it.