Gima,
She has shown absolutely no motion towards or preference for MC, S, or D.
You, like most on this board, have persevered and lived this situation in life and in your head damn near 24/7.
With the Holidays approaching and the MC ball currently in her court, would you consider something like this:

W,
You seem not at all uncomfortable with the status quo.
However, I cannot and will not live this way much longer.

You have not offered an opinion on MC in over two weeks since I last asked you.

Now, the Holidays are coming and I plan to enjoy them fully and thoroughly.

But if you do not let me know your thoughts on whether to even attempt repair through MC by January 1st, I will file for D.

In your own words of course.
If you've reached that point.
Have you?

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac