My questions are: should I try to find out if I am being lied to? Or, do I just keep DBing and let that go for now until/unless some evidence does come forward? And, if I should... how do I go about it? This type of behavior is soooo outside my nature and I don't have a clue how to go about anything like this.
The last thing I am asking for help with is, basically... that I know I need to grab a backbone here! lol I really do. But, I am scared s---less! I think I am finally getting emotionally strong enough to start moving in this direction, but again don't really know where to start.
Sorry Puppy, I know this is a lot... I really appreciate your help! Thanks! Rocked
Someone told me in my sitch that "courage is what you're absolutely terrified to do . . . but you do it anyway." It's ok to be scared.
It's NOT okay to be naive, esp. if you're trying to make decisions for yourself and your family.
Finding out the truth can be emotionally devastating. You should ONLY do it if you:
a) think you can handle it;
b) are doing it for the right reasons. I can't answer "a" for you, but noodle "b" for awhile and tell me what YOU think are "the right reasons."
