Dropping in to say hello. I've been so busy lately with those pesky divorce questions. Finally got all of mine answered and went visited with my lawyer last Monday. She said that STBXH's lawyer had not returned his questions yet...said she intended on sending him a letter. Next meeting with lawyer will be with an accountant to get ready for a business valuation. Too bad my Mr. A can't do it, he doesn't do that kind of accounting, besides might be a conflict of interests...lol.
As many of you know I have been separated for three years now and have decided to give dating a try. Funny, how I never thought I would be able to find anyone who wanted to go out on a date with a 40 something woman. I have found that once I truly dropped the rope with my past everything started falling in place.
I've been seeing Mr.A for a few months now, but it's really on and off...can't figure him out...lol. Well, I decided dating meant that you date and figure out if you have anything in common and it is not exclusive. So that's what I'm doing. I had a lunch date with a 36 year old Saturday...does that mean I'm a cougar? Mr. A called me Sunday and we had dinner. A former HS classmate of mine contacted me on FB and wants to go out this week, I haven't seen him in over 25 years! I've already been asked out by another man for this weekend, but I am having a girl's weekend with four of my friends. We are going out of town, I can't wait!
So hang in there everybody...for so long I sat home and moped about H and OW, seemed once I let go everything fell into place. Was it because I was happeier and more upbeat, maybe I don't know, but I know it sure beats the heck out of worrying about them.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
