Originally Posted By: pitinmygut
Did anyone agree to child support without lawyers? If so, what type of deal did set up with your WAS?


You're certainly welcome to work out a child support plan without legal counsel; personally, I think you're being a freakin' idiot to do so.

Part of the other reason to consult with a lawyer is to show your wife that you are taking this divorce talk seriously. Many WAS's want the divorce to be easy and amicable; that's part of the fantasy. Show them they don't get the fantasy, and that will make them think twice.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."