I have tried not to have R talks with wife, but they just come up, since everything seems to be tied to our R.
Just so that I have it on record, I think that's a big load o' bullshit.
Puppy
"...But they just come up because everything seems to be tied into our R...." - wow... you must be the only one whoever felt like that....
Indy you have an excuse for everything, you have to learn to STOP doing that.
If your wife brings up relationship talk, here is what you will do, keep your responses to 1-3 words and offer no direction or answers, "Yes", "I agree", "Yes I agree", "You're right".
That's pretty much the way you will respond to any relationship talk she brings up. That should cover 99% of any topic she'll have for you regarding the relationship.
Don't start any other conversations either, you will start to become silent.
I guess we can only ask that you do this, tomorrow you'll come up with an excuse that will start like "but she said this, .... and she did this...."
