It looks like it's BUSTED!!!!

[istillluvmywife]

I think one other thing that helped in my situation is that my W agreed early to go to MC. Even though she felt at the beginning that she is done and that our M was over. Simply going to the MC on the fist day I think helped as the MC had said that if we wanted to make the M work, that we both would have to work at it and that it would be hard work.

From that day, I showed her that I was willing to work hard, but I did it by actions. I used the 180s, she said that I was not involved enough with the family. I spent most of my free time hanging out with my S6. Now, I have to be careful here how I word this because I said it the wrong way at MC on 2 occasions. My W wanted me to be more responsible around the house and do my fare share of the work. DO NOT SAY HELP HER OUT AROUND THE HOUSE , ITS OUR HOUSE. So I picked up the broom more often, did the laundry more often, cleaned the bathrooms more often.