I am a little confused here on what it is you are trying to accomplish... You seem to have gotten off track.....
I thought the main objective is to reconcile?
Got the impression that reconciliation was NOT the goal here.
Originally Posted By: AFWAW
Originally Posted By: Ekie
…your WAW dealt you a get out of jail free card, that being her infidelity, no one on heaven or earth can judge you for putting your WAW aside.
At this point, I am NOT interested in having my wife back. …. No thanks..
I would not wish AFWAW’s wife on anyone. Will leave it at that; in I can be lacking in empathy.
Either way AFWAW is doing fine here.
Sure, he does not say the exact correct thing in certain circumstances, however his behavior is largely spot on, and that is way more important then what he says. In addition his behavior is behavior, not ACTING out something he is being coached to do. AFWAW is truly detached from the outcome here, and as a result his behavior has changed, his wife reads this, and reads this correctly, and continues to peruse, because this makes him attractive.
Eventually she will tire of the limbo AFWAW has placed her in she will wakeup (unlikely) or move on.
