Thanks. But, during the process, how did you act around her? My sitch has me spending some weekends and some dinners during the week with our s5 and I feel there's tension on both W and I that the result is less conversation. Should I just pretend I'm having a good time? What did you do?
I simply acted like a friend or roommate. When she came home, I asked her how her day was and if she wanted to talk, I would put everything away, turned off the TV or Radio and looked into her eyes and really listened.
When she was done talking and asked about my day, I would simply tell her it was good, maybe mention one thing that happened but would not share too much at the beginning. As she become more friendly and open with me, I began to open up more to her and let her in to my world a little more.
When I went out, I would only tell her that I was going out. If she wanted to know more she would need to ask and I would simply answer the question she asked, never revealing more then what she had asked.
On a couple of occasions this bothered her and she had mentioned it a couple of days after the fact that I was acting mysterious.
I hope this helps.
Me: 39 W: 34 S:6 M:11 years T: 13 Years B: 07/2009 Possibly BUSTED: 11/2009
