Yeah. We're good at helping with DB and relationship stuff, but these kinds of questions are best answered by your attorney.
(Any lawyers on here would likely tell you that they could only give general advice, and that any such advice should not be construed as official counsel, etc. They're funny like that.)
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement