Well no contact with W again this past weekend. I text her on Wednesday to see what was up since she called last Sunday and left vm. I also called her and left her a voicemail on Friday. Have not heard from her.

Since then I learned that she has requested a court date for the D. Which will probably be next summer. She has never said anything about mediation it was just here is what I want with a list of items on the petition. I responded back and it was not what she was asking for so she must figure she needs to go to court. The only time she sat down to even try to talk about filing and what was what is one time she told me she wanted to talk over finances. When I got there she had a joint petition filled out and wanted me to sign. That was 1.5 months ago. I would not sign then as I needed to talk to a lawyer. So she filed away hoping that I would just give in. 10 years and she can't even talk through this without getting everything her way.

We have been in minimal to no contact for 4 months now. I go back and forth between should I try to initiate contact with her or do I keep on with no/minimal contact in hopes that she wakes up. I am sure that the census here on the board would be to stay no contact as I can't talk her into anything this is something that she has to go through on her own. It just seems like sitting here doing nothing in the way of saving my marriage outside of GAL is not busting my D.

"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33