ISLMW,

It's great that you posted that here.

Your situation, and how you handled it, sounds similar enough to my own (and how I'm trying to deal with it) that it gives me hope.

Best of luck to you in your new relationship with the woman you love.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."