I have to say that I think what helped the most was that I detached. What this means in my opinion is that although i love my W more then life itself, I had to come to grips with the chance that our M was over and that I would need to move on with my life and make sure I was there for my S6.
With this said, I concentrated on the things that I needed to do to become a better father, husband and person. I started to work out and lost nearly 30 pounds and am still working out today. I started to go out more with friends and got a life (GAL).
Work on yourself first, learn to be happy without her and then she will see a person that she wants to be with again.
Listen to what people like Sandy2, Greek and Coach say and the many other on this site that have helped me.
Good luck.
Me: 39 W: 34 S:6 M:11 years T: 13 Years B: 07/2009 Possibly BUSTED: 11/2009
