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I feel the same way about this "support group" that you've thrown now thrown yourself into forming, K4D. It seems like you're trying to bail on the uncomfortable discussion here, but still want to steer others' efforts to DB on the premise of "being there for each other." It's harder for people to be honest and critical if they're in the same room...

I'm not opposed to live support groups in general, just suspicious of the timing and motivation of this one.


TrentC,

I'm not bailing at all. I just thought it would be nice to have a live support group as well. It isn't the K4D team. lol. It is for anyone that would like in person support. It is nice to kind of have real people to get together with especially in times like this when many are lonely. Thats all it is. I am still here online and will be.

I am also acknowledging that I have been corrected. I am not against detaching at all. I admit it is hard to find a balance of still loving W and detaching mentally and emotionally.

But I am still here.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...