Hey BBJ,

<<He said he didn't want a divorce because he didn't want to be divorced from ME, not for any of the other reasons.>>

Ok., so he does not want a divorce but according to an e-mail he sent both you and the OW he wants nothing to do witheither of you???

As far as options go, I would seriously consider dropping #2....but what do I know?

have fun tonight...you deserve it.....and don't take any sh!t....from anybody #1 / #3 and especially #3!