It looks like it's BUSTED!!!!

[istillluvmywife]

It has been several weeks since I posted anything, but I have spent a lot of time on here reading other peoples sitch and using the suggestions and ideas in my own sitch and it looks like it has worked. I have to say listen to Sandy2, Coach and Greek, these people know what they are talking about.

For the last couple of weeks my W has been getting more and more friendly with me, but I kept my distance as to not wanting to scare her off.

Well this weekend started off with a small argument over a stupid little thing that lead into a discussion about how she never shares her feelings with me since all of this started and that I am done trying. I told her that I don't know where she stands on our relationship and that I don't want to keep trying for the next several months only to end up in the end with a broken heart because she does not want to be in the relationship anymore.

She then said that we have made some great progress over the last couple of weeks and that she hasn't shared her feelings with me because she was afraid that my changes are not permanent and that she would end up getting hurt again herself.

We spent the rest of the weekend talking and acting like we used to with the exception of physical contact but it was great.

This morning W said to me that she is concerned about how the argument went on Friday because she does not want me to give up as she feels that if we work hard on it, our marriage will be okay.

On my way out the door for work this morning, my wife kissed me and it was great.

We are still planning on meeting with a the new Marriage Counselors (a married couple that work together) that we meet with for the first time last week which is great because I think it can only improve our marriage and we will both be much happier in the end.

I want to thank everyone on here for their help, whether you posted on my topics or not you helped just by posting on your own and others. Believe in the process and believe in yourself and you will be happy in the end.

Thanks