Still in the tunnel with hubby

[kjensen]

Trapt, thanks for the perspective. I have been letting the life get sucked out of me.

Throughout this process I know I am improving my reactivity. I can remain calm(most of the time) through most any garbage thrown at me. I'm still not so good at detaching and that seems to be my achilles heel. Caught up in the moment I tend to forget to remain detached. and I think I take too much of what H says seriously! :-)