Well, I thought I was doing the opposite. In the past, I had gotten so I wasn't even doing his laundry! I am having a hard time with the 180 thing as I don't think I have ever been consistently one way or the other. I just keep asking myself, how would I normally handle this and try to do the opposite. But, you are right, he is getting the a great deal right now and that is why I came here to seek help from people who have been there!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing