My H said he wants a D, I'm devastated!

[peacetoday]

IM not sure
I heard you say you were depressed
I think counseling will be crucial for you
I cant tell you waht to do
only suggest to take care of yopur self
Listen to yourself

I know how painful it is
If he is with someone having sex and dinners
His leaving looming over your head

If you can keep it professional niot emaotional
and you want to ask him when he is leaving i see it as ok
if you can keep it professional
when my H left
I didnt know until the day after
he came back to see kids
and said he is staying at Bills house
(TRanslation living with OW, 26)
i only said I do not agree with your choice
Families need to work things out
he said nothing and left
there is nothing we can really do
ONLY
take care of the finances
the house
the credit cards
seperate everything
get the L in order
document
he may/will begin a large journey into debt many of them do

seek therapy to deal with the apin of this so you wont stuff it
if he does leave,,,there may be rel;ief for you as it was for me
no more concerns walking on eggshells
let him go
you will become everything you wanted
he may return later
you will heal and be happt agin
we all have passed thru this and many of the LBS can attest to this
peace