Similar to the "smile and wave" approach that I hear so much about on these forums - sort of an acknowledgment that I know whats going on without any risk of counterproductive confrontation.

But seriously, I am finding that trying to figure out how to confront is causing me to ruminate too much and there are way too many things about me that I need to start focusing on. I am just finding it hard to break out of focusing completely on W right now but I have to find some way to do it.

Finding strength but not quite there yet


Me:41
W: 35
Married: 6
Together: 15
Bomb: 08/09
Currently: Investing in me!

"You can't do anything about anything you can't do anything about" - Larry King