I think you would post it on "Piecing". From what I have read, the relationship can be so much better than before because so many of the issues have been addressed and communication is better than ever which leads to other things being so much better than ever.;)

I would also ask, Is your family worth the trouble? I busted my rear for my family. Ex was still so into his fantasy and still his that there was no getting through to him. Your H sounds relieved that it is out in the open and no more lies. world of difference there.

hugs, kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory