I am going to start doing that now too. I planned without H, but then he came back so I planned with H, and then he left again so I didn't get a chance to plan without him and he did express interest in doing something together, but as always he never follows through. From here on out, I am planning without him and if he asks to come I will have to consider that then, but otherwise I am a completely single parent with no H at all.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89