Reason I asked is that when W finally talked about things with me, one of the reasons why she kissed me (and yes like you, it was that kinda kiss), was to see if she could have the same kind of connection with me as we used to have and which she found with OM.
Not all women think the same of course, some of them put this huge premium on the emotional connection angle and how it could be felt in kissing (with a hugely unwarranted implication for the future of the r/s).
And no, W did not feel the "connection" with me and did not for a long time. Not that I was told for a long time either.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
