Isn't it funny in a way how folks are often told in C that they have to love their spouses and not treat them as possessions?

... and that no small part of why Gucci's advice DOES work is that the WAS does treat you as his possession and is indeed afraid he might lose it or have it taken by someone else.

(No, I didn't mean funny haha)


Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.