Had a not so good weekend. Friday we talked about going to a Halloween party for the kids or to a fun Halloween event at a local park. I didn't speak to H all day. He calls at 6pm to let me know he's too tired to make it out and he wouldn't be much fun. I didn't pick up the phone, I let it go to voice mail. We were already out to dinner at this point, I knew he wasn't coming but I wasn't going to call him.
He did go trick or treating with us. This was the girls first Trick or Treating Halloween. They loved it! H at one point was rushing them home. I stopped him. They were having so much fun. I told him that I would keep taking them out alone if he was ready to leave. At that point, I really didn't care if he stayed or not, the joy in the girls was worth staying out as long as they wanted. He stayed but left as soon as we got them home to bed.
H was supposed to come over early Sunday morning and stay until naps. Usually this means 8am to 1pm. I didn't hear from him until 11am. I had plans with the kids that afternoon so his time was almost up. He called, I didn't answer. I honestly did not want to hear his bs story. He was going to feed me a bunch of lies and I frankly did not care to hear them. I went NC the rest of the day. He called a dozen times. At one point, he texted me concerned about the girls.
M: They are fine. I am busy, did you need something? H: Why won't you contact me?
Later in the day:
H: Call me ASAP. M: Eating dinner. Is there something you need?
Yeah, okay, don't hold your breath on me calling you. I have no desire to speak to him. He's better off if I don't. I'm so tired of his crap. He is selfish, inconsiderate, rude and has zero respect for me or for anyone else. Those girls thought they were going to see Daddy yesterday. F him!
He's supposed to come over today. We're celebrating a special adoption day thing with our daughter. My mother is coming over too. They have not seen each other since before the business trip. Should be interesting.
Court- MC is next Monday. That should be interesting as well considering I don't really want to go, haha.
Me 37 H 41 2-dd's (2,3) T-14 M-10 D-Day 6/18/09 (MOW ended their brief "love" affair a few weeks later) Separated- 7/3/09
