I think I am coming to the conclusion that the fact that I am even considering this move is something shifting within me in terms of detachment. Maybe I should just allow that shift within myself and allow that to help me in my GALing and being stronger. I need to give this more time...
Like you say perhaps this is more to do with you rather than him!
I lived with H not sure if he wanted in or out for three months, unfortunately I had not found DB then and was in a mess myself! Unfortunately our MC was awful and sowed the seed of separation in H's mind and off he flew.
My only words of wisdom come from experience, that I wished I'd known about DB before he left, you have H at home still and however awful it is and believe me I know, its like living alone in a nightmare! You still have time on your side, use it wisely.
If MC is going well dont push, just keep waiting and DB'ing your heart out!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
