Originally Posted By: TrentC
[quote=TrentC]Things are good.
Here's the weird part...

She says she's worried about being physically intimate with me, but she will let me kiss her. I don't mean a quick "seeya tonight hon" peck on the cheek, and I'm not talking about a make-out session, but I do mean full-contact, lips to lips, 20-second long kissing. I think it's her way of testing the waters to see if she can get comfortable with me again.

One time she did pull away from me, and I did not kiss her good night tonight as she was already in bed when I got home.

I take these as positive signs.


Hi Trent, just out of (in part admittedly a slight morbid curiosity), could I ask if you got any further on her motivation / logic for this behaviour?


Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.