Not sure what to do

[Lost Rabbit]

Stu believe me there is nout as sexy as a hard working husband. Make sure youre were pristine before you start mowing and dont do it in your scruffies. When she arrives put the kettle on and say youre just gonna freshen up, and go clean up that will give her a bit of time to wander round the house noting what you have done, then come back all smiley and looking good, dont forget the cologne, it was one of the first things I noticed about H starting to look after hiself, he was always clean but now he smelt good too!

If W doesnt start any R talk stay well away from it, just keep it nice and pleasant, go sit in the sunshine and chat if you have garden chairs, sunshine always makes you feel good! If she does bring up any R talk just validate her, no needy, begging or pursuing! Like the others said she cant divorce you in a week.

My H left in August I saw him for about three weeks, then not for a month in which time I DB'd my butt off, and boy did I get his attention back, the following weekend he told my S(21) he thought he knew what he wanted but now he didnt have a clue. So yes people CAN change their mind or at least be thrown long enough to start thinking sensibly again lol.

Im still working on things, Im still separated although my H is throwing a bit of MLC into the mix so its not so straight forward. But he doesnt have OW so Im still in with a chance albeit a small one.

So get about doing things on the house, at least the benefit of seeing your house grow and you working hard will give you a better nights sleep! (())