Hey K just checking in on you. Latte this morning?
Glad you are continuing to give it a go, I can only imagine how hard it must be. I think piecing must be an incredible endeavor, hopefully since you are both trying it will work better than it did when I tried and H didn't!
I was happy to see you wanted a night at a hotel to try and get to the next stage. However talking things out wasn't what I was expecting to be on the agenda...although I know that physical intimacy without emotional intimacy doesn't work all that well for committed relationships!
I understand being able to let it all go. I have done that myself a bunch of times. Even over the weekend there were a few times Dan would look at me and smile about something and he looked like the husband I loved again. Problem is, like you have noticed, the opposite happens too. You can be in a very nice moment of lightness and suddenly a memory or a 'visual' pops into your head and that resentment rears its ugly head...
